How Love Killed Mark

Watching The Other Woman movie, stars Cameron Diaz, Leslie Mann, Kate Upton and Nikolaj Coster-Waldau just now makes me wondering if there are many people like Mark (Nikolaj Coster-Waldau) in this world, who has many girlfriends beside his wife, and can live romantic life with all those women without getting caught and feeling guilty about it.

I know it is not only man does that but also woman, so i am talking about the people who have the habit and addiction in having partners more than one person.

It makes me curious to know, why can’t they stick with only one spouse or partner ?

After gathering some information about that interesting topic, i found out below reasons why people are doing it.

1. They get bored easily

Some people have tendency to get bored easily with many things they have or do.

They need some variations a lot with their life in order to make their life colorful.

If they cannot find any new interests in their current partners, they are likely to search for new ones to find new sparks.

2. They like more on the adventure

When a man or a woman are still in the dating process, the process itself make them feel exciting to get to know each other and exploring new things together.

Then when they already become couples, they already know each other so well that can make the excited feel vanishing slowly.

3. Need more attention and to be loved always

There are some people who need more attention than others from their spouses and need more love every time they need.

If their partners are in busy situation and cannot give them attention that they want, they will seek for others to get attention and to shower them with love their needed.

4. Seeking perfection

They are likely looking for perfection in their partner’s types.

It can be their looks, their characters, their intelligents, their attitudes and many more.

If there are others that have more qualities compared with the ones they have now, they will pursue them, also they seems never be satisfied.

They will always look for more beautiful / handsome, more clever, more wealthy, more elegant person, etc.

5. Feel something missing in the heart, there is always a hole in it and feel empty inside

This is a type of person that often feel lonely in party or in a crowd.

They sometimes feel there is always a hole in their hearts need to be filled, so they will search the right person for it.

And they will continue to do so and never stop.

6. Don’t want to feel lonely

Because of their loneliness feeling, they want to have someone in every place and every time they need so they will not feel lonely anymore.

If their partners cannot provide it, they will likely find others that can fulfill their needs.

There are risks in doing like that continuously and it is not fair for their spouses / partners getting cheated like that.

How long they will do it and how long it will last, if they are not willing to change their thoughts about it, it is gonna be a never ending cycle for them.

We all should be thankful for what we have now and accept our partners with all their strengths and flaws.

Try hard to accept them just the way they are.

Find many things that can make us happy being with them and the ones that can make us so grateful to have them.

We do not want at the end our life being alone because there will be no one beside us if they already know that is how we treat them and that is what kind of person we are.

Be thankful for all you have now, because you never know what happen next.