Why Speak Up will Change Your Life

Are you a quite type of person that seldom express your own feeling to someone else ?

I  was. And it was kinda bothering me all this time.

The reasons i did that because i am an easy going person and i thought that it was ok for me, which turned to be the contrary.

I liked to make other people happy first without considering my own, even though that made me uncomfortable sometimes.

I seldom told people how my feeling was, which made them did not know how the situation really was. They thought i was fine with it.

My friends said i was too nice. And people tend to use me for their advantages.

At one point i got tired of it.

Tired of people asking me did things that they wanted.

Tired of when things went unexpected i was just silent and let it happened.

Tired of miscommunication happened because i did not tell people what i thought or i wanted.

Then i start to express my thoughts and my feelings to people for the things that are not right for me.

Some of them gave me good results as i expected, and some did not.

But it is ok, it does not matter to me, as long as i am comfortable with it.

And i dont have to put myself after other people needs or wants most of the time.

It is good to be selfish sometime. I live my life happier than before.

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.” ~ Steve Jobs ~