Last night, my good friend contacted me on fb. He asked me to do a favor for him.
It is kinda odd, because usually i am the one who is bugging him asking for his help.
This morning he had a flight from Jakarta to Sumatra, going to visit his home town with his family.
With the plane crashed events happening more nowadays, he was afraid that his plane would be crashed too.
So if it happens, he asked me to pass his messages to a girl he met online, whom he talked to for quite long time, to express his feelings for her.
His messages touch the heart deeply.
“Baby I’m sorry I can’t fulfill my promise to always be there for you.
If you miss me, please remember that i will always watch over you.
No matter where I am, I belong to you forever.
Be safe for me where ever you are.
I love you sweetheart.
Always and forever.”
Aww, isn’t he so sweet ?
I asked him why he did that.
He said he does not want her to wait for him and wondering why he does not contact her anymore if anything bad happens to him.
He adores her very much and he has feelings for her since the day he met her but she already has a boyfriend.
He knows she likes him too and willing to jump on the plane to Jakarta to meet him if he wants too, but since he respects to her boyfriend, he keeps his feelings only with him, without the girl knowing about it.
I did encourage him to tell her about his feelings for her. He refused.
He does not want to ruin the relationship between her and her boyfriend.
That is very kind heart of him. But i do not agree with him.
Because he misses the chance to express his feelings to the girl he loves.
It is not that i asked him to break the relationship between that girl and her boyfriend.
It is more to take a chance to say “I love you” to her, before it is all too late.
If she has the same feelings with him and chooses to leave her boyfriend then it is not my friend’s fault. It is all in her hand, whether she wants to be with her boyfriend or to be with him.
And it is not her fault either. She has the right to choose someone she loves, someone to be with. No matter how complicated the situation is.
If she chooses his boyfriend then my friend knows where his position is. And he can continue his life and move on.
Again, it is the matter of taking the chance.
So he will not regret it someday, about “what if” he said he loves her, or “if only” he said he loves her.
What will happen ? What will she do ? Is it going a happy ending for them ?
He will not know the result if he does not tell her about it.
By the way, my friend landed safely at Sumatra today.
And i am going to encourage him more to pursue his love and for him saying “I LOVE YOU” to that girl.
Wish Me Luck.
The Island of Zanetta Jeanne ( RL Name : Rika Apriani ) 