Do you ever feel hurting so much inside by people that you do not ever want to forgive them ?
I did. I promised to myself many times that i never forgave and forgot of what they did to me.
I spent a lot of time thinking about how i could get some revenges to them.
Then at one point of time, i got some enlightening in my life, suddenly i feel it is not right.
It is just not the right thing to do.
7 Powers of Forgiveness below will give you some good reasons to think about.
1. Detox your mind and your body
By forgiving someone you automatically doing detoxification to your mind and your body.
You let all of negative thinking and bad feeling fly out from your body, leaving only positive thinking and good feeling inside you.
Only take positive things to absorb into your brain.
Always remember that there is always good intention coming from everyone, no matter who they are and what their conditions are.
We just need to put us in their shoes.
Everything has always two side of stories. Be wise and open your mind and your heart for the greater good.
2. Make a peace of mind
You can go to bed every night and sleep tight without thinking about someone that already did bad things to you.
You can do all of your activities every day without concerning them, focus only to yourself and other things that deserve your attention.
Bear in mind that when you think of someone you hate, you only hurt yourself.
That person even never think about you at all. So why bother ?
Love yourself, give your body a peace of mind.
3. Safe time and energy to think about something else instead of getting revenges in bad ways
No need to think about any plans to make them miserable, or take some revenges so they can feel the same with you.
It is time to plan your goals of getting your desire outcomes in the future.
They said success is the best and sweetest revenge. I totally agree with it.
Show them who you really are with your success and your quality.
It will be the best revenge ever !
4. Not carry a burden on your shoulders anymore
Every time you hate someone, you put a burden on your shoulders.
The more the hate feelings you have, the heavier the burden you carry on your shoulders everywhere.
It is time to take them all off your shoulders.
Let go all the bad things from you, throw them away, make your body easily fly and enjoy all the things you do in life.
Fly away and reach the sky !
5. Move on without worrying of looking back to the past
Whatever happened in the past, let it be behind you.
You may look back to the past only to take some good lesson learns from it so you will not do the same mistakes anymore.
And never regret it, everything happens for a reason.
Just accept it and use it as experience to embrace the challenge in the future.
6. Go anywhere without afraid of bumping some enemies at some places
When you hate some people, sometimes you have feelings want to avoid them in any situations and conditions, whether in the store, party or gathering, community or other places you can think of.
It is not nice to have a feeling like that, is it ?
You limit your world of existence by yourself, it is all in your mind that you put yourself in those limiting situations.
By forgiving people you do not like, you will not be afraid anymore of getting some chances meeting them anywhere you go. You can face them easily and if they are not welcoming you, so be it.
It is their problem, not your problem.
The real problem is not the problem itself, but it is our reaction about the problem.
7. Smile more and happy thought
Do you know that some of health problems coming from the unhappy and stressful mind ?
It can reflect to your other parts of your body and affect them as a disease.
It can make you ill if you let your hatred feelings control your mind and wound your heart for so long.
By forgiveness, you can refresh your thought and give your body a relieve.
You can smile more wide open because now you only have a happy thought in you.
No more hatred and you can feel yourself like a brand new !
True forgiveness is when you can say, “Thank you for that experience.” ~ Oprah Winfrey ~
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